On the surface, everything looks polished. You’re a talented woman. Everything seems to run smoothly. Your children are doing well and are (almost) out of the house, you have a great partner, and you always appear cheerful and put together. You love beautiful things and adore a lovely lifestyle. You work out, have a jam-packed schedule, and a wide range of interests – and yet, your life feels empty. And that, in turn, makes you feel bad, or worse, guilty.
Beneath that glossy surface, there lingers feelings of restlessness, dissatisfaction, and meaninglessness linger. You've actually been losing yourself for years.
You never imagined that this feeling would overwhelm you like this. Not you, the dynamic, smart, and entrepreneurial woman. You’re completely standing in your own way, and at the same time, you feel lost and, in a way, unseen. You’ve always neatly tucked those feelings away because things were busy, and that gave you a sense of purpose.
You have never fully used your abilities to truly live on your own terms.. And everything you ever derived your sense of purpose from has now completely disappeared. And here you are, completely exposed, with that ever-growing, nagging feeling in your stomach of "Who am I, actually?"
So now that there is time, space, and resources, it is truly the perfect moment to unapologetically choose yourself.
No, it’s not something that will happen "someday".
Later is NOW. Time is ticking.
So, if you don't finally learn to choose yourself now, you'll just neatly fill your time and live your life with regret, in the framework of others' plans.
You can keep telling yourself that you have a rich life, but at the end of your life, not having lived according to your own deep desires will feel truly impoverished.
Stop pleasing and diminishing yourself now!
Choose yourself, be brave! Share your story with me and step into that version of yourself that has been gently tapping you on the shoulder for years. A life full of joy and fulfillment, exactly as you have wanted for so long. Without giving up everything you’ve built? It’s possible. Both And.